and, don’t you notice something rubbing against it when you move?

  • @Apytele@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    44
    edit-2
    29 days ago

    STOP DOWNVOTING A GENUINE QUESTION IF THIS WAS A WEIRD SEX THING THEY PROBABLY WOULD HAVE PHRASED IT DIFFERENTLY.

    Thank you.

    Anyway I don’t wear them for this exact reason I already have enough urinary tract problems due to early childhood neglect it’s like a bacterial conveyer belt.

    As for the sensation I couldn’t tell you; see above. Interested in other answers though.

  • @pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    link
    fedilink
    3929 days ago

    I plug for a couple days at a time every once in a while, honestly you stop noticing the outside contact after a couple hours. Then you forget it’s there for the most part until you move and it grinds against your prostate and you’re like “oh right this is nice” and you start doing kegels and leaking in your cage

    • @Finalsolo963@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      link
      fedilink
      English
      2929 days ago

      Lady, the question was “do thongs touch you butthole?”

      Please tell whoever is holding the keys that a random on the internet said to let you cum, if not for your own sake then for the rest of ours.

      • @GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        3129 days ago

        That’s the first couple steps on a long and possibly terrifying road. Sometimes not knowing is more comfortable. You’ve been warned.

        • @xmunk@sh.itjust.works
          link
          fedilink
          2229 days ago

          Eh, it’s not “terrifying” it’s just a kink thing and it tends to get a lot of unwarranted negativity (imo because of insecure people). It’s definitely not for everyone but, as with nearly all things sexual, it’s never a bad idea to investigate things just to see if you’re into it.

          • @GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca
            link
            fedilink
            829 days ago

            I’m sure some people find it disturbing or terrifying. Certainly not all. As for whether people are into it or not, it’s their life and I’m not going to tell them what to do.

          • @azulavoir@sh.itjust.works
            link
            fedilink
            428 days ago

            I’m secure about my sexuality and I still don’t like cages - but more because if I’m with a cute submissive guy I really really want to play with his cock y’know, and if he’s not going to let me that’s a bit of a deal breaker

      • @pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
        link
        fedilink
        2329 days ago

        Chastity cage! =D

        To help stop you jerking off. Getting super pent up and horny really really heightens anal for me, and it puts me in a fun subby headspace, even by myself

        • @TheControlled@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          3
          edit-2
          29 days ago

          Thank you! Another commenter said I should be cautious before googleing it and I imagined pictures of Goatse but x5 intensity. This is kinky, but no more kinky than having a plug in all day.

  • @Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    3729 days ago

    Guy here, I’ve worn a few in my time and it’s a lot like wearing a new ring on your finger, at first you notice it constantly, you feel it between your fingers and you notice when it moves, but eventually you forget it’s even there. Exact same experience with thongs. After the initial sensory experience wears off its as present in your mind as the underwear you’re currently wearing. It doesn’t move much between the cheeks, and I can’t say I’ve ever explicitly felt it shading my asshole.

    Personally I’m not a fan of them because they don’t provide the two things I wear underwear for, padding between my thighs so they don’t chafe, and decency if I manage to cut it rip my pants while working. If I don’t need to worry about those I’ll just go commando.

  • mub
    link
    fedilink
    2928 days ago

    Is it true they play a G note when you fart?

  • @nsfwpls@lemdro.id
    link
    fedilink
    English
    18
    edit-2
    29 days ago

    I think it depends on the thickness of the cheeks and thong/string. I have a thicker than average booty for a guy, and I usually just feel thongs rest between my cheeks. If I start doing some crazy stretches or yoga I’m sure it’d get a little closer to the anus as things spread out.

    Strings definitely get more up close and personal, but I feel it more on the top of my ass where it meets my back and on my gooch than my anus directly. It definitely goes a little deeper between the cheeks though, but I sure don’t feel it rubbing against my anus. The right thong/string should feel like almost wearing nothing.

  • Album
    link
    fedilink
    14
    edit-2
    29 days ago

    Isn’t that the whole point? But no to the latter question. Your shoes rub your toes but you probably forget about it after a while. Ever wear sandals? There’s comfy pairs and uncomfy pairs.

  • GenderIsOpSec [she/her]
    link
    fedilink
    English
    1329 days ago

    i only notice them if i accidentally wedgie myself with them shrug-outta-hecks

    oh and when i check myself out from a mirror, obviously hyperflush

  • Tabitha ☢️[she/her]
    link
    fedilink
    English
    1229 days ago

    no way, full backs feel like you’re wearing a diaper and you still get wedgies anyways, so why not have a tinier more environmentally friendly wedgy and no panty lines?

    if you’re actually having the specific problem mentioned in the title, just size up. try plain ones instead of weird fancy ones.

  • @Linnce@beehaw.org
    link
    fedilink
    928 days ago

    Yes. It doesn’t really rub, it sits still because it’s tight against your body. Honestly you quickly forget you’re wearing it after putting it on.