I want a sub that I can ask questions about myself and my sexuality too, but this app is so damn small compared to reddit that I don’t know where to look/cant find anything. Where can I go to ask deep/interpersonal questions like this?
Blahaj is very much a queer friendly instance. Mostly trans folk, but imho you will get a good response there.
Also, feel free to DM me if you want. I went through a lot of therapy to be okay with my sexuality, happy to discuss whatever privately if you would like :)
Edit: Cuz you seen to be asexual, perhaps !asexual@lemmy.world ? <1k subs unfortunately so maybe a bit dead, but worth a shot.
Just make sure you’re not combative on blahaj, the mods are very protective in a mama bear sort of way. 🥾
Being that the community is rather small at the moment, a lot of people just browse by new and see what there is to see (that’s how I got here). I don’t believe I’ve seen any particular community exclusively for generalized questions about oneself/ones sexuality, but there are plenty of specific communities to various sexualities as support communities.
I know there are a few verrrry small groups for asexuals, as I’m a part of them.
!asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com maybe?
First one that came to my mind too
If you’ve got a thick skin and are willing to pick through the asshole responses then this sub will tend to get you the most feedback… but a good deal of that will be hot garbage - otherwise the more niche subs should help filter out a lot of the assholes - blahaj tends to be pretty aggressive about killing trolls in particular, because, honestly, we get enough of that shit in real life.
Id honestly just like a sub I could order around.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHH MY GOD IM SO SLOW LMFAOO. ok i like this joke :3
whacha mean order around???
im makin fun with the multiple ways to use the word sub
It’s not busy but Ask Lemmy NSFW is pretty nice, open-minded and certainly hard to shock.
But you’re supposed to make that stuff up! We can’t tell you about it.