• Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      edit-2
      1 year ago

      That’s probably because the loudest and most overly defensive ones are the Americans you’re most likely to encounter and remember in online arguments and on American news, so that colors the perception. Especially when you don’t live amongst the more reasonable majority of Americans 🤷

      • scv@discuss.online
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        That is not my experience at all. Most Americans get extremely defensive when someone criticizes the US, even people who know better. Many are ok with specific criticism (like, healthcare sucking), but it doesn’t take much for them to revert to 'murican mode.

        I have been living in the US for over a decade and been to 2/3rds of the states.

        • Mog_fanatic@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          1 year ago

          That’s really interesting. I’ve lived in 9 states and I can honestly say that outside of the southeast, it is legitimately difficult to consistently find people that dont think the us is a flaming sack of shit or at least headed that way. Seriously, I’ve heard waaaaaaaaaaaaay more negative talk on the us from Americans than anything positive. Especially in like the last decade. But this place is so damn big that anyone’s experience would vary a crazy amount so that makes sense.

          • scv@discuss.online
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            0
            ·
            1 year ago

            Are you in tech or some other field that doesn’t involve interacting with different socioeconomic groups?

            Most of not all states guarantee some “interesting” encounters if you leave the cities. In California I have seen Confederate flags flying, met neonazis, and plenty of Trump supporters. Trump got over 34% of the vote in California, almost 39% in Washington and over 40% in Oregon. Those percentages are not a majority, but I think it sets a floor, since Trump supporters are not exactly trash talking the US.

            I have spent a lot of time doing canvassing and other activities that mean I encounter people with very different ideas, so that would definitely explain the different experience.

            • scv@discuss.online
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              ·
              1 year ago

              If you’re going to accuse me of lying, at least have the decency of doing it in a reply to my post. I lived on the East Coast and traveled up and down some, then I moved to the Midwest, I got into politics and canvassed in several states plus I went on a few road trips for fun. Then I moved to the West Coast, which somewhat limited my ability to go on road trips to other states, but still, I went as far as Colorado, I spent a month there doing backpacking and visiting a few places like Denver and Aspen.

              Why do you think it is so unlikely I could visit 3 states a year?

      • sock@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        well if an american does respond to this it proves them right if they dont respond it doesnt prove them wrong its a bad argument for an otherwise pretty dumb claim

        unless americans do care i hate america and am american so idrk

      • Honytawk@lemmy.zip
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        If I ever have to read the bogus claim that “USA #1!!!” I’ll flip my shit.

        #1 in teen pregnancies maybe

        #1 in prison population

        #1 in school shootings

        #1 in wage gap

        What the US is not #1 in: happiness, progressiveness, quality of life, freedom

    • underwire212@lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 month ago

      I know seriously lmao. I mean I know it’s anecdotal, but I’m in the US and my friends and I constantly criticize the US. Most people I know tend to agree with most criticisms, myself included.