• UnrepententProcrastinator@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    We need to change the way we interact with social media.

    My advice, points don’t matter and you don’t deserve anyone a debate.

    Drop the phone or press back and go next if it feels toxic.

    Internet should serve you and not the other way around.

    If you have something to share, make your essay in a different post with the appropriate documentation and let it sit for someone else to find.

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          1 year ago

          I only mentioned downvotes because new users are getting downvoted immediately for completely benign opinions like “Linux was too hard for me to figure out” and “I haven’t had any issues with Chrome”. When someone’s first experience with this platform is what amounts to a deluge of negativity, it hurts the platform as a whole. Instead of being presented with better alternatives or being offered help, people are simply downvoted and, for someone who’s new here, downvotes sting when you don’t realize they’re kinda meaningless.

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      1 year ago

      Agreed 100%. I don’t use social media at all with Lemmy being the only exception and, as I stated in my original post, I’m not really having a good time here so I’m spending less and less of it on the platform. It’s incredibly unwelcoming here.