Luis Rubiales is criticised by a Spanish government minister for kissing forward Jenni Hermoso on the lips after Spain’s Women’s World Cup victory.

      • Ech@lemm.ee
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        1 year ago

        You realize adults can be pressured to say and do things they don’t want to do…right?

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        Yeah, might. It’s good good to question it even if that’s the case. Maybe next time someone will think twice about doing something similar if it’s not consensual.

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          I get the sentiment but fuck… every time I see this type of comment it makes it seem as though women are meek powerless individuals it’s like backhanded feminism

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            The point is the gender doesn’t matter at all. The power dynamic is the core of the problem

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              Okay fair enough, but stating it like that means that it’s impossible for anyone to fight against that? So once again people have no agency?

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                Huh? Laws are created all the time to protect against this issue but the topic clearly isn’t fully solved

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                  I get it’s still a problem I agree, my point is it shouldn’t always just be assumed this is the case that a person has no ability to fend off anyone with a larger power dynamic

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        Well that’s kind of what the original person said and I gave another option. You don’t know. I don’t know. But saying they’re banging because she changed what she said isnt fair either.

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      I don’t think either of you know how powerful a moment of elation like that can be. I think she gets it because she was there, living it too. Context, as always, is everything.

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        We’re both talking about the fact that she changed her messaging about what happened, not the original action.