The biggest strain on my finances is healthcare at 58% of my income. Then food at 28%. I’m fortunate enough to not have to pay rent, but if I did it would cost me about 35% for 1 bedroom apt 30 minutes out of the city. 80% if I wanted to be able to walk to work.
Look into Bangle.js, it’s what I have, it fits some, not all of your requirements.
It’s open source, both the hardware and the software so no lock ins whatsoever.
They advertise a 2 week battery, mine lasts closer to a month between charges.
You have to install any features you want (every feature is opt in, not opt out).
There’s no speaker, microphone, or keyboard though, so no calling or texting straight from the watch. It’s currently £77 before shipping.