the term “cake day” just makes me think of r*ddit. I’ve seen Lemon Day going around, but we probably want to avoid affiliation with lemon party.
not that we can tell anybody what to do anyway, and each instance could even have its own. anyway, it needs to be something that obviously means “anniversary” and doesn’t require explanation otherwise it’ll just be annoying
I do also dislike memes. The strongest communities are based around discussion and more natural interactions. Memes are a shallow way to form a community
Shallow, sure, but also very easy, effective and accessible. Not everything has to be super deep and meaningful all the time every time