• OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.one
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    At the end of the day though, it’s just that most people aren’t willing to admit to themselves that they shouldn’t be driving because they’re too easily distracted in the first place.

    Is there any room in your mind for the possibility that some people simply have different values than you?

    You’re acting like the only people disagreeing with you are people who have been in accidents and are looking for something outside of themselves to blame. You’re acting like deep down they agree with you that all error comes from a lack of competence and responsibility.

    (Aside: I hate cars and our car-centric infrastructure and I haven’t been in any accidents, which means I don’t fit into your narrative here. But that’s not likely to sway you. And I know that’s not likely to sway you. Because I know you don’t share my perspective.)

    But is it remotely possible to you that some people out there might just believe:

    mistakes and errors are inevitable for everyone – not just for stupid, careless, irresponsible, incompetent, hopeless lost causes masquerading as people.

    And even if mistakes were only made by those kinds of people – meaning a single mistake could mark you as a “bad person” – saving “bad people’s” lives is still better than letting those people die. Just because they couldn’t figure out a car doesn’t mean they deserve to die in an accident (or starve to death because their suburban house is too far from the nearest grocery store and they accept that they can’t drive.)

    Is it really impossible for you to imagine that some people might just place value on human lives, regardless of cost and regardless of personal responsibility?

    Prehistoric humans are now known to have spent years dragging around and caring for their paralyzed tribe mates millennia ago. Meaning the kind of people I’m talking about have existed for thousands of years. People who don’t care about personal responsibility. People who just want the best for everyone around them.

    If you told these people, “some of your tribe mates will be incapable of safely driving vehicles. How should we build this city?” They would (once you showed them what all of those words meant) have intentionally laid out the city to allow those poorly-driving tribe mates to walk or use transit. They would place nearby grocery stores. They would direct high density housing to go up in the area. They would try to make it possible to avoid using cars. And the city they built would have 90% less cars because of it.

    To them such a city would be an obvious choice.

    You don’t have to agree with the cavemen who cared for their dying relatives. But please acknowledge that they existed, and didn’t hold your beliefs. Please acknowledge that the people you’re arguing with, don’t hold your beliefs.

    • Piers@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      The issue for the commenter you replied to is that they think that laying the blame for a specific incident at the personal responsibility of the people directly involved somehow means that the diffuse responsibility of wider society in creating conditions wherein those incidents are guaranteed to regularly occur is somehow no-longer relevant.

      All that seems to matter in their assessment is who gets the finger pointed at them when the problem happens, not, why does the problem happen and what can we do to avoid it?

      • OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.one
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        Okay, yeah. These people definitely find comfort in hiding behind “personal responsibility” as a means of abdicating social responsibility.

        But have you seen the Alt-Right Playbook video, “Always a Bigger Fish” ?

        In that video, Innuendo Studios lays out the idea that there is a base, core, philosophical difference between conservatives and progressives in how we think the world ought to be, and what kind of world we think is possible.

        To the conservative, nature is full of hierarchy. The strongest chimp gets the most bananas, you know? (Yes, I know that’s not actually true. But it’s the way they see the world.) The smartest, strongest human survives and hunts well and eats well. (Yes, I know early hunter-gatherer societies hunted in worker cooperatives and raised children cooperatively. So I know this isn’t really a well-researched scientific hypothesis. But it is believed by a particular group of people.)

        When they say, “take personal responsibility,” it’s kind of a code word for, “accept your rightful place in the hierarchy. Accept that you are simply the weaker, stupider chimp and you are inevitably going to get less bananas and society can’t be expected to coddle you and give you more than you deserve.”

        According to a worldview that asserts humans are naturally divided into the strong, the weak, and the in-between, a person complaining about their own outcomes is just in denial of this fundamental, universal “truth.” A whiner unwilling to admit they receive less because they provide less. A deceiver attempting to usurp a more deserving person’s place in the hierarchy because they are unwilling to accept the consequences of their “actions.”

        There’s no better frontier for this idea than the open road, where a single mistake can kill you and everyone in your vicinity. Transit activists, who want to take people off the roads, put them on buses and in trains where they will be safe even if they aren’t “vigilant” and “responsible” and “alert” (read: unlucky), are trying to spend society’s limited resources coddling people who will never really provide a return on that investment – because they are weak. Which wastes money, since the money could have been spent on responsible people who will lead society to better places.

        To these people,

        • society’s responsibility is to make sure everyone stays in their place.
        • there will always be starving monkeys.
        • the folks who would crash a car probably can’t manage their bank account. Or learn valuable skills.

        Hence, roads are a convenient way to cull the weak.