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    All this, except change “Trump” to “literally any Republican in the last 50 years”

    They’ve been dog whistling at racists to try to win elections their “kill the new deal and bring back feudalism” economic platform couldn’t at least since Goldwater ran for the presidency

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    I told a former friend of mine that I’d lost so much respect for her judgment of character that I couldn’t continue pretending not to look down on her and that it would be best if we stopped hanging out together.

    No regrets.

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    I judge you for all that and also for your choice of political party because they represent all those things.

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      They’re capable of feeling shame, just not for what you or I feel shame for.

      The trick is to find out what hurts them.

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        You’ve got to make them an outcast to their in group.

        So stupid shit like pointing out their hands are nicely manicured (if they are a man) that’s why they wear lifts and shoes too large for their feet.

        Or for women you call them a man. That’s why they do it to every woman they hate.

        Just observe them. They lay their cards right on the table.

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          The problem, of course, lies in striking the balance between speaking to them in their own terms, and reinforcing the values that many of their terms reflect.

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    Unpopular opinion: if you base your arguments in political debates around morals, you’ll only be able to convince people who share your moral standpoint.

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      Fuck that, this is just another rendition of the centrist/both sides bad/fascist apologizer number. Everyone that voted for this deserves to be ridiculed and called out to face the reality that they have forced upon the rest of us. Maybe then the lesson will stick. We tried the polite way and millions of people spat in our face. We do not have to take the higher road.

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      I don’t think the point here is “I should be able to convince you”, it’s “We’re not friends anymore, because you’re a genuine piece of shit from a moral standpoint”.

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        Good luck with trying to improve the political landscape while not talking to a large part of the population, then. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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          Have you talked to Trump voters, man?

          Most of them are not salvageable.

          It’s the same essential mistake that the Harris campaign committed this past election which may have lost us our democracy permanently - a favorite mistake of the Democratic Party seeking to fend off its left-wing by showing (or, in this case, ‘showing’) that bipartisanship and reaching ‘across the aisle’ is a winning formula. Trying to reason with right-wing voters in this country is a lost fucking cause. Reasoning with those who’ve tuned out due to apathy or despair is the way forward - assuming, of course, that votes matter going forward, which is far from guaranteed.

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          Ah yes. Last conversation I had with one they insisted they saw a bus sized drone in the sky. If I’m rude or not improving the political landscape then lol oh well guess I’m not then.

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            Step one: don’t try to “convert” anyone.

            Rather, listen to their worries. You gan point out discrepancies with their world view and show your disapproval if they’re really bringing out the racist shit, but don’t try to sell them your ideology.

            Also, remember that it takes time to change someone’s viewpoint. You need to be patient.

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              Rather, listen to their worries. You gan point out discrepancies with their world view and show your disapproval if they’re really bringing out the racist shit, but don’t try to sell them your ideology.

              So the civility politics route the Dems have been trying for the past 40 years.

              How’s that worked out?

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                So the civility politics route the Dems have been trying for the past 40 years.

                Non-sequitur much?

                In what way have the Dems ever listened to any non-millionaire?

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                  Man, that is all the fucking Dems have done for longer than I’ve been alive. Ass-patting rural voters and telling them how valid their concerns are, and trying to compromise and show how very ‘reasonable’ we are.

                  You wanna track how the rural vote has trended since?

                  We’ve not increased our share by validating their basic positions and pointing out contradictions in the details that they’ll willfully forget a day fucking later.

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      If Trump voters could be convinced they wouldn’t have voted trump, so this doesn’t change my calculus.

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        If Trump voters could be convinced

        Are you sure you’re actually in favor of democracy, if you have such a misanthropic worldview?

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          I have so far seen zero evidence that anything Trump does will convince his voters that he’s the evil shitstain he is, so what I’m not in favor of is the futility of trying to convince anyone, when 8 years of reality and headlines have failed to do the same. I have magas in my family and they will perform literally any gymnastics necessary to absolve Trump of guilt for anything he’s done.

          So yeah, if basing my opinions off of the evidence I’m surrounded by daily makes me misanthropic, then sure, you can call me that if it makes you feel happy.

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          Are you sure you’re actually in favor of democracy, if you have such a misanthropic worldview?

          Democracy, as the saying goes, is the worst system of government ever devised - except for all the others.

          People are stupid, in every fucking system.

          The difference is, in a democracy, you have to (theoretically, and depending on the health of the democratic system) get a massive percentage of very stupid or very malicious people to make stupid decisions on behalf of the polity, whereas in narrower forms of government, you only need a small percentage of very stupid or very malicious people who are well-placed.

          Democracy is a safeguard, not an aegis, not a panacea. All systems of government are ultimately only as good as the people who comprise them; and while I’d sooner trust “The entire adult population” over “A self-selected cabal”, that does not mean the former will always make good, moral, sensible, or even self-interested decisions.

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              Going all-in on appealing to those who are already aligned with them or unaligned, and ignoring or degrading the opposition instead of trying to sway them.

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                  So… how is that strategy going to help progressive politics, exactly? O.o

                  You’re asking how choosing to focus on getting out the vote instead of appealing to opposition voters is going to help, in an electoral environment that saw 1/3 of the country say “I don’t care who wins”?

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      Go on bb. Say it with your whole chest. These ellipsis look bad on you. You believe it, say it. Tell us how fascists and liberals are the exact same thing. Go on. We are waiting.

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      "The oppressed should work towards their own murder, in solidarity with all the other oppressed folk being murdered!

      It won’t stop anyone from being murdered, but it’ll make those of us not in any danger feel really pure 😊"

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      I’m not having that argument again. I understand the position that they were equally bad, and I support the rights of folks who couldn’t vote for either of them because of that. But while I do acknowledge that US imperialism is not just a meme, I had to work with what I was given, and that was bad or less bad. I chose less bad.

      I respect that others saw it differently and that’s all I have to say on the matter.

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        I support the rights of folks who couldn’t vote for either of them because of that. But while I do acknowledge that US imperialism is not just a meme, I had to work with what I was given

        Exceedingly well put, I don’t know why that simple little bit of understanding is so impossible for some Harris supporters

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        I understand the position that they were equally bad

        I don’t. Every single day proves that over and over again. I understand being an idealistic young person with no practical experience, but in those situations the intelligent thing to do is to listen to people and not triple-down on the GRU playbook.

        Those who are neither idealistic or young, who couldn’t be arsed to do the one thing that would have helped defeat fascism need to understand what a fuckup they are.