FenrirIII@lemmy.world to Work Reform@lemmy.world · 9 months agoNot only is mutual aid human nature, it fucking ruleslemmy.worldimagemessage-square18fedilinkarrow-up1367cross-posted to: 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
arrow-up1367imageNot only is mutual aid human nature, it fucking ruleslemmy.worldFenrirIII@lemmy.world to Work Reform@lemmy.world · 9 months agomessage-square18fedilinkcross-posted to: 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
minus-squareDanterious@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up21·9 months agoMutual aid is different from charity. Have they been trying to support you in the ways that they are able?
minus-squaree_t_@kbin.pithyphrase.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·9 months agoWe live thousands of miles from each other.
minus-squareStovetop@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·9 months agoThat is a red fucking flag if I ever saw one.
minus-squaree_t_@kbin.pithyphrase.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up7·9 months agoI won’t dispute that, but this is someone I knew in real life, not just an Internet acquaintance. I can’t fully discount the possibility they’re deceiving me, but it would be out of character for them to do so.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·9 months agoThis is charity, and is ok as long as you process it as such. It’s not really a mutual situation.
Mutual aid is different from charity. Have they been trying to support you in the ways that they are able?
We live thousands of miles from each other.
That is a red fucking flag if I ever saw one.
I won’t dispute that, but this is someone I knew in real life, not just an Internet acquaintance.
I can’t fully discount the possibility they’re deceiving me, but it would be out of character for them to do so.
This is charity, and is ok as long as you process it as such.
It’s not really a mutual situation.